7 years ago – yes. 7 years ago – I posted about Monsters. One of myÂ points was that we, as a society, need a monster. We’ve always had one and it somehow seems to keep our culture in balance. IÂ highlighted monsters that I grew up with who for the most part were musicians that scared the crap out of parents. Marilyn Manson, Judas Priest and Eminem to name a few. At theÂ time, I was asking who wasÂ the monster now. Eminem had just ended his run and Marilyn had become a caricatureÂ of himself.
As I suspected, there was a new one already in the works; Kanye. Unless you’ve been living under a very large rock at the bottom of the ocean. Kanye West has been leading the way in the Monster competition for the past several years. But, this one is different. This one doesn’t scare anyone. Not even parents.Â He is easily one of the most talented people on the planet right now and is 100% aware of that fact AND is willing to share that fact with anyone who will listen. Never has an artist been so hated. (There have been petitions at Glastonbury Festival and Ottawa Bluesfest to remove him from the lineup.) He’s not polarizing. He’s hated. People hate Kanye because he is one of the best and knows it. They hate him because of his ego.
But there have beenÂ plenty of entertainers that have had big egos . . . Noel Gallagher to name just one. But these are different times. This is the age of the selfie. The age of self-promotion, even if you have no talent at all. (Think Kim Kardashian. Not one ounce.) We’re all competing with one another to portray ourselves as beautiful, popular and definitivelyÂ better than our peers. Yet another study was just released surrounding the psychological significanceÂ of selfies.
People who post selfies on social networks are more likely to exhibit what some psychologists call â€œthe dark triadâ€ of personality traits, according to two recent studies of nearly 1,200 men and women who completed personality tests and answered questions on their online habits. This dark triad consists of narcissism (extreme self-centeredness), Machiavellianism (manipulation of others) and psychopathy (acting impulsively with no regard for other peopleâ€™s feelings).
This isn’t great news for many of us andÂ Kanye obviously isÂ this. With this in mind -Â in many ways – we have become the monster. We’re miniature versions of Kanye. Seeking attention,Â affirmation and self-promoting. We are the monster.